I arrived in Chiseldon around 2 p.m. yesterday. The cabby who drove me tot he hotel was this big, strapping black man with a strong accent. I thought he was from Jamaica, but low and behold, he was a Swede! My mouth dropped. Of course, I believe we saw blacks in Stockholm, but I never met one before--so atypical. In fact he told me this story about going to the US to stay for awhile (he's lived in Texas, Minnesota and California). The emigration officer didn't believe him. It took about two hours to confirm that he was indeed a Swedish citizen. He was speaking Swedish for reals! His family came from Somalia--a dangerous place that he never visits.
Before leaving Swindon though, I walked to the mall to have some coffee and have a read of the newspaper
The Independent, which I found to be very interesting. As always this newspaper had such good writing. Except for the silly tabloids, all the press writing is superb, filled with a literary richness we seemed to have lost with our "just the facts" type of writing.
But before you think I've gone a bit too English, I will also note that the British media is no different here then at home. Sensationalism reigns as highly as the Queen.
For a taste, here's a sampling of article subjects from The Independent:
Battle of the Burka.
Many women in the Muslim community are wearing Burkas here. They're really not Burkas (only worn in Afghanistan), but are actually Niqabs. In any event, the French have just banned them this past week. The reasoning is several fold but suffice to say the biggest danger is security. The British are now talking about the same thing. I have to say that since we were here in 2000, when I seldom saw a woman's head covered, I have witnessed several during this visit. In fact, it seems quite common. The Muslim population has grown and with it the fundamentalists who seem to be causing some difficulties because of their beliefs.
Beyond the full veil controversy, there are also Muslim taxi and bus drivers who are not allowing access to blind people if they have a service dog. In fact, several blind people have been kicked off buses and/or refused service in taxis, leaving them stranded. It's terrible and it spits in the face of the law that says the disabled cannot be refused access to public transportation. The Muslim claim that the saliva of the dog is unclean and that they have to wash themselves completely to be clean again.
Since Christian religion is taught in both French and British schools, the Muslims are having a hard time dealing with that too. In fact, one of our friends told me that some students have actually tried to pull down crosses in school because it is offensive for them. Fortunately, we don't have that problem in the US, but I can see some real issues down the road if this type of separatism is allowed. Especially when you consider some Muslims in England want to have separate laws for themselves and not be subject to England's common law. It is a real problem. Of the 650 MP (members of Parliament), only 8 are of the Muslim faith, but that number has doubled since the last election. Who knows, maybe the fundamentalists will get their way, the democratic way. Time will tell.
British soldiers accused of torturing Afghanistans--102 cases of sexual abuse, mock executions, beatings and murders.
First black Tory peer, Lord Taylor of Warwick is being prosecuted for taking 11,000 pounds in fake expense reports. He was a rising star in the Conservative party.
Yorkshire Ripper gets to stay in jail. He was up for parole, even though he had murdered 13 women in the late 70s. He suffers from paranoid schizophrenia. Why would a parole even be considered is beyond me.
A new movie about John Edwards' scandel. Sounds pretty good. He's called the Love-Rat and the movie is
The Politician.
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Taliban may make way in new Afghanistan government. Women are concerned because they are already receiving death threats, like "Leave your job or we will cut your head off your body." Some have already lost family members for not following warnings.
Educational system is collapsing. Well, I guess it's happening all over.
Credit card scandle--people signed up for help to get them out of debt. Instead, the company folds up, leaving the customers with no help as well as being out a wad of money that they paid for the help. Sounds like the scam I experienced here in London.
And believe me, that was only a few pages of the newspaper. Sooooo if I were to ever live here I would have to do the same as I do at home. Not read the paper, nor watch the news. I usually get stomach aches from the worry. But I do enjoy the reading, so I'd have to stick to light fare--magazines on the arts, gardening, etc.
Magazines--I love them!
Speaking of magazines, it seems lots of retail stores are now publishing their own. I have always loved the Sainsbury Magazine (supermarket here) and Waitrose, but now even Marks and Spencer is publishing one. Still, the best one is Sainsbury--filled with all sorts of interesting articles and receipes. It's more like a cross between Martha's Living (photography and layout) and Woman's Day (subject matter). The general magazines are cool too. My favorite if the English version of Good Housekeeping. Women with real bodies (arms thicker than a stick and hips that say, "Hey I'm a woman) and of various ages appear in this and other magazines. What a concept.
Food Shopping
One thing I hate about food shopping here is that you have to bag your own groceries, which makes me very nervous and uncomfortable. Even the little store here is Chiseldon (about the 1/2 size of a 7-11) does the same. This afternoon I was down there. I gave the proprietor my little basket and he gave me a plastic bag to fill up.
There's a whole campaign against plastic bags everywhere (which isn't a bad thing). They are trying to encourage everyone to bring their own bag. In France, they just don't offer them anymore at the market. I saw a lot of people using boxes like they do in Costco. In England, I've noticed that they are offering a plastic bag for a pence or 5 pence, which is in turn donated to charity. I think that's a good idea. Then, at least the consumer is given a choice, even if he or she has to pay for that choice. I would also liked to be given a choice to bag or not to bag for a price as well.
Hog Roast at the Hotel
Today at the hotel, they had a hog roast--what we would call a BBQ, using a chuck wagon rotisserie . The hotel had a company come in called Roast from Coast to Coast that do the BBQing. They provide the hog, stuffing and apple sauce. The hotel offers salads (potato, rice and greens) and rolls with butter. It was good, but maybe a bit plain as they don't have gravy and their "crackle" (the skin served separately) is a bit too fatty for me. But the stuffing was great! I got some pictures of the carver and the food, just for fun.
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| Rotisserie |
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The Carver
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| The Meal |
I like what the people do here before lunch or dinner. This was a buffet type of meal: go to the chuck wagon for your pork, pick up your salad and return to your table. But instead of doing what I did--went to the bar, ordered my drink and then went for the food. A lot of the folks, just ordered their drinks first (beer, wine, cocktail), enjoyed them and then went for the food. Of course, the last of it was a nice cup of coffee that is considered a separate course and enjoyed over leisurely.
Although the English aren't even close to being as laid back as the French, I would definitely say they are way more relaxed than we are and perhaps we can learn from them. Having an aperitif (as they call it) is a wonderful way to start your meal. It doesn't necessarily have to be sherry, wine or beer, but just the time preparing for the actual event is rather nice. Unfortunately, our restaurants want to change tables quickly and we're always so rushed. A case in point is Red Robin. They are so fast, they are serving the main meal before you even finish your salad. We always feel so rushed there, we only order the salad first and then ask the server to come back when we're ready to order the rest of the meal. It's amazing how much more fun and leisurely the occasion is when we do that.
I know I'm rambling on a bit here, but I haven't had this much time to write in a "donkeys year," meaning a long time. I must talk about one more meal we had here and that was at our friend's, Anna. Her family originally emigrated to England from Italy. So we had a wonderful Italian dinner the other night at her house. BTW, she is a single woman (very cute and bright) who has bought herself a cute little three-bedroom house in Swindon, the nice part. I am very proud of her, especially here where buying a house is very difficult, even for a couple. Anyway, she served us our first meal where we had what we call the entree first--a bowl of yummy pasta and then the salad with a plate of cheeses and meat last. I enjoyed it that way and may consider trying it at home some time.
Art Show
I am so excited. For years, I have been wanting to meet the artist that lived at the end of Turnball Mews (the street we lived on when we were here in 2000). Well, I not only met her but she had an art show in her home today. And she is quite the painter. A watercolorist, Mary Rayner, also does some wonderful pastel work. If I had the money, I would have taken a couple of her works home. What a great way to end an afternoon's walk.
Right, well, I best be headed on to other things here. I am enjoying my writing so much I am actually working on developing some ideas on my drawing methods that I teach. It's really not that hard to write when you have nothing else to do except soak up the country peace and quiet.
I have done some painting today as well. Here's some fun things I did this afternoon. I like their w/c paper here--backed with cardboard. Very nice!!!
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The Coo-coo Bridge--this could use a
bit more work. Maybe tomorrow |
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| Walkway to the coo-coo bridge |